Bragging

Most of the time, my job as a mom is not one to brag about. It consists of so much nagging, yelling (yes, I admit it) and pulling of hair. That is, me pulling my own hair. I am not the super cool, fun parent I thought I would grow up to be. I am not as understanding about being a kid as I thought I would be when, well, when I was a kid. I suppose, to give myself some credit, it was much easier to remember what it was like as a kid when I was living it. I complain about my kids driving me crazy and then feel badly because that is not the sum total of how I feel about them. It's just easier to complain I guess.

Not today though! Today, I brag. Today was a rare good day. I'm not saying I didn't snap at the kids or get frustrated with the fighting and the tattling and the repetitive, "Just do what I asked you to!". All of that happened today. It happens every day. It was the bits in between that were lovely. First was Brooklyn's attitude. She spent the night at her friends and when I told her I was going to pick her up this morning around 9:45 or 10:00, she did not argue in the least. She was cheerful and pleasant. Wow, what a change. No whining. No, "Ma---ooomm, please can I stay longer?" Just a, "Sure, I'll be ready." And she was!

The next small thing was Seth. He has held onto the $5 his grandparents gave him for a month now. He has not spent it because he wanted to go to the bookstore and buy a book - of all things. I won't hide my pleasure here. I think that is wonderful! Anyway, I asked him what book because we were going to Target. He said Target won't have it. He wanted Oliver Twist. He didn't want a child's version of the book, he wanted the real book. I took him in and the sales associate led us right to it. She was impressed, heck, I was impressed. He didn't hesitate. He knew just what cover he wanted. He picked it up with a grin and we purchased his book. He is on chapter two. The chapters are not long and he is determined. "I'm going to read it mom, really read it and finish it." Funny, how when one sets their mind to something it can be accomplished. I admire his drive in plowing through Dickens.

Ayden is on day three of big boy underwear. The real trial was today. We were from 8:30 until after noon. He stayed totally dry and only used the potty twice while we were out. A major feat and I'm so proud of him. Not only that, but he insists on washing his hands each time! I pray that stays with him as he grows older. Should I hold my breath?

Caleb argues. No doubt about it, he has that personality. The child that questions everything. Not just things around him but everything, including choices I make. This has a good side and a bad side. He gets in trouble constantly for arguing and just plain talking too much! He reigned it in today and kept control. I know he questioned what I said several times during the day but he kept his mouth shut and showed he really can exercise some self control. I am so proud of him today.

Bobby. Dear Bobby. He works hard, his job is stressful. He gets migraines and had a wicked one this morning. He had to go to his store around 3am this morning because the store alarm had not been set. He is exhausted. However, he came home, watched the kids while I went to the store, agreed to go out and eat some food (he hates leaving the house once he's in) and even joined in on my plan of surprising Caleb by taking him to Target to buy his birthday present on the way home. Currently, he is watching GIJoe with all three kids. It was a great day. Days like this, I have to brag. They are few and far between but they are what make all those other terrible days worth it.

I Did Remember

My mother and my youngest share a birthday. So... although I posted for Dillon on the 19th, I thought of my mother all day. I love you mom and I know you can hear this message.

I met you...

a year ago today.



It was love at first sight.
You keep us very busy.

Everyone loves to play with you.
Your smile lights up our home.



Happy First Birthday Big Boy!! We've had a great year!

Neglect

To any family or old friends who still look at my blog, I apologize. I have been neglectful. I have not been updating this blog very often. School is kicking my rear this year but I do think I'm happier there than last year. I love my two sixth grade classes! Who knew sixth graders could be so sweet? Maybe it's because I have one at home now, but, for whatever reason, I am truly enjoying them. Several other things have kept me away:

The babies have been sick. Ayden started it off with a bad cough and then passed it along to Dillon. Ayden has not been sleeping well, he whimpers in his sleep, tossing and turning. Dillon was up from about 3:30am on this morning. Neither one is eating well so we've been battling those good times. Last night I came down with whatever they have - good times. Will we ever go to church two Sundays in a row again?

I was out of town for three and half days. I flew into Houston Tuesday night, November 3rd with Dillon. I returned home Friday. Dillon did great on the flight there so I thought the flight home, which is about 45 minutes shorter, would be a breeze. I was so wrong. We did get the row of two seats to ourselves but he became very restless and fought a nap although he was tired. Then, he fell asleep only to awake 30 minutes later screaming because we were landing and his ears hurt. Poor baby. Bobby missed his turn to the airport and was late, so I stood there with a crying baby and three bags, waiting. Dillon cried the entire way home and was a bear to get to bed. The next morning he had nasty, crusty stuff all over his ear. I don't know if his eardrum burst or if it was all the pressure from the plane. Poor guy. He felt better after that though. Now, he has Ayden's cough so he doesn't sleep well. Why were we in Houston? Well, of course it was great to see my family but I had things to take care of. I stayed at Holly and Brian's and they were very hospitable. Sheryl was thrilled to get a chance with Dillon, all to herself. I went to speak to a lawyer and sign some papers. We are trying to get everything in order for Bobby to adopt the kids. We're excited even though we've hit a few snags but I'm not giving up. Bobby's parents were so generous to come help Bobby with the kids while I was gone. With his new job, I don't know how he would've handled it without them.

Bobby's job. It has changed. He is now a manager of a Hollywood video since the GameCrazy closed. He is very stressed. The store was not in good condition and he has a lot of work to do. He is home much less and when he is home, he's trying to destress, which isn't easy in a house with five kids and a wife that works long hours too. He gets home later and some nights the kids are in bed long before he gets off work.

Despite all of this, the kids are doing great. LOL Ayden is wearing his big boy underwear today and so far it's dry. He chose to do this. I like to wait until they want to do it so they care. Otherwise I feel like I'm just training myself. He has been successful before too but the next day asks for a diaper. I wonder what is going through his little head when he decides one day to wear a diaper and the next that he wants the potty. Dillon has now learned to wave bye bye and hello. He has become so fast he walks across the room in an instant. He is very sure and steady on his feet now. He wants to go outside with the older kids so badly and cries when we come inside. ETA!!! I forgot to mention that he has been doing the funniest thing. He spins. He likes to make himself dizzy and will spin around looking down at the floor with a goofy grin on his face. I'll try to get video but who knows if he'll let me. I've never had a child this young spin! Brooklyn is in a dance club at school and is busy meeting with friends after school two or three times a week to choreograph a dance. Seth has brought his grades up and his behavior has improved. His teacher said he has gotten better at focusing on his school work and it seems he is not so forgetful as he was last year. Caleb has discovered he enjoys reading. I guess he finally figured out that when he takes the time to read the story instead of just look at the page, he is interested in what it says! Go figure. I'm so excited that he has discovered a love of reading.

So, life has been extremely busy. My house has suffered, the laundry situation has suffered and the blog has suffered but the kids are fed and growing and happy and we are blessed with a nice home and good jobs so I can't complain. I will update soon with Dillon's birthday and some other fun pictures.

Here are some from my visit to Houston.
Dillon loved Papa G and playing outside:

Holly and Brian now have a chicken coop on their property and Holly took me out to feed the chickens. They had a lot of rain just before I came so it was very muddy and I had to wear Brian's boots. We all thought that was pretty funny.

I had to get a photo with Papa G, I miss his quiet, gentle presence.